If you do not feel as bright as usual, do not be too strict with yourself. If your health is at risk, try not to overdo exercise. You may have reached the limit of your abilities. When you recognize this fact, think about your lifestyle as you can improve it and develop a healthier attitude.
You never doubt your ability, even if you do not always have the right answer immediately. Problems you face are more complex and demanding than usual. It may be helpful to give up some of your usual methods to make room for alternative solutions. Accept to be inspired by others.
In your relationship you feel more and more that it gets boring. Both are mostly on their own, and most of the time you meet for a bit of chat just before bed, which in no way reduces the feeling of being lonely. The only thing that helps is: talk, talk, talk! If necessary, get rid of old problems, start over and discover long-forgotten attractions that once brought your partner and you together.