If you feel pressured, it is much better to take some time off strenuous activities as additional pressure is not desired. You do not want to create complications that go with those you already have to deal with, you have to show restraint, slow down and make your life easier.
If you have to stay up late and burn the midnight oil to get things together at work or at school, you should do it. It’s better to take a hard step and get things done as quickly as possible. This time of extra effort will not be too long. So do not worry that you are reorganizing a possible social engagement. You will be there. For the moment, you just stay away every step you take, which means you’re much closer to the finish line.
You have a very loving partner, but your heart is currently playing only minor sounds and therefore you may not feel like you have something to do with your love life. Therefore, you should first accept your changed feelings and look for alternatives. Your wishes and ideas will return soon, and before you know it, you and your partner will be in your arms again.