It does not have to be a spa package if you are looking for health, even a long hot bath, relaxing music and a good book. It is time for you to focus on your health and learn to balance healthy choices against the potential harm caused by overeating, alcohol consumption and smoking.
Do you feel torn between your family and your career? A conversation will help to release the tension and solve things. Talk to your loved ones and find out how they feel in this situation. Chances are that they are completely satisfied with the current state of affairs and your concerns are unfounded. However, if one or two people say they wish they could see you more often, they really try to achieve that. Sometimes a short chat on the phone is enough to maintain a relationship.
You react quite spirited when you feel exploited or provoked by your partner. This will sooner or later lead to a powerful fight. Fortunately, there are ways and means to avoid unnecessary arguments: go through your favorite sport or let off some steam, or suggest an evening when you both go their separate ways to find happiness in the end to see the evening again to compensate for some tension.