If you do not feel as bright as usual, do not be too strict with yourself. If your health is at risk, try not to overdo exercise. You may have reached the limit of your abilities. When you recognize this fact, think about your lifestyle as you can improve it and develop a healthier attitude.
Unpleasant memories can hold you back. Fortunately, today you can find a way to unleash these relics and keep them in the past where they can no longer influence you. A new person at the scene can inspire you to see things in a new way and move on. Suddenly, the old wounds that you used do not hurt so much anymore. They think positively about a new relationship, probably because it prepares you for a better future.
In your relationship you feel more and more that it gets boring. Both are mostly on their own, and most of the time you meet for a bit of chat just before bed, which in no way reduces the feeling of being lonely. The only thing that helps is: talk, talk, talk! If necessary, get rid of old problems, start over and discover long-forgotten attractions that once brought your partner and you together.