Caution is not the same as boring! If you are looking for adventure and excitement in your life today, do so in an intelligent and safe way. The people around you may want to take shortcuts or take some risks, but you should be the voice of reason and remind them of the consequences of playing with fate. If you are careful with what you do (and how you do it), you can still have fun.
At the moment, you might feel a little bit abandoned because arrangements and friends seem more important to your partner than you. That you may have one or two problems is more than understandable, but you should not blame the problem entirely on your partner! You should better concentrate on finding a solution for both of you! Because the fact that love and routine do not always go hand in hand is not new. So do not ask yourself what you can do to counter this indifference, but ask yourself what you want to do for that love.
Be careful with your health and avoid pushing too far. Circumstances sometimes lead to greater difficulties than you might expect, and for that reason you need to save and ration your energy. Take a step back and do not let yourself be overly stressed. Being ambitious does not help you reach your goal.